butterflies or not

I've found someone with whom I can be so honest I can't even be with myself. But is it the right time and place for butterflies in my stomach? Is he the one? Or is he less? Or does 'less' really mean less this time? Questions only I can find the answers to. I hope I'll be able to. Due to the changes I've gone through with his help. So I think this is just a big 'thank you' for him. Even though I know he won't get it this way.
( I know I have not written a single post in English before. It comes handy this time. It makes it easier to talk about things of such importance. )